Too familiar

Guess who i talked to on Thursday night?

I talked to a friend who just had a broken relationship. Personally, I don't know him very well. However, when I listened to him that night, I feel the bitterness inside, that he is not in control of the situation. All he can do is to deal with it, grief a little then move on. Doesn't it sound a little too familiar? I can't say that I am the only person who understands the sorrows, but it does resemble what I went through last year. It was painful, distressful and suicidal. Unfortunately, I chose to be invisible from the world rather talking to other people. Or I should say, I don't really have anyone to take me through the stage. Therefore, the grieving seems to take forever. I really wish someone would reach out a hand and pull me through last year.

The end of a relationship is not the end of the world. However, the pain inside isn't something that can be described by pieces of paper drops of ink. It's fine that no one is there to listen to me. It has been a long time, but I am through. I truly wish the same thing is not gonna happen to someone else. Therefore, I would be a listener if needed.

Sometimes for people who are wounded, they don't need advice from you, nor they don't need to take up much of your time. All they need is a little care from you. Just a tiny bit of warmth when they feel cold, just a tiny bit of care when they are alone, just a tiny lit of light when they feel dark. They lose hope, embrace them because they need to feel beloved again.